1.   Everything we need to know about how to behave in this crisis can be learned by watching the people who are at the epicenter of the horror.

2.   I discovered that no story I might write could be as fulfilling as watching my babies learn to roll over or sit up or chew their tiny toes.

3.   What have you learned by watching the mistakes of others?

4.   Yet no conflict is fully unique, and there is usually something useful to be learned by watching others negotiate.