1.   A child with an extroverted temperament may not do well in her room or in timeout, says internationally known parent educator and author Jean Illsley Clarke.

2.   But despite the dire, indeed shocking, statistics, parent educators see signs of hope.

3.   It hires certified parent educators to make monthly in-home visits with parents who volunteer to be in the program.

4.   Look at your own motives, too, suggests parent educator Nancy Samalin.

5.   Maybe, maybe not, says parent educator Linda Braun.

6.   Parent educator Suzie Draper tells parents to call a cease-fire by letting natural consequences take their course.

7.   Parent educator and author Nancy Samalin says a big mistake parents make is taking the anger personally.

8.   Parent educator Judy Gundersen says this is normal.

9.   What is surprising is that psychologists and parent educators say timeout may not belong in your house, either.