11.  The officer, she says, told her she could still sponsor her husband for citizenship, and told her how to apply.

12.  The next time she starts to expound on her lifestyle, sit down with her in private and tell her how you feel about her comments.

13.  To give her a hug and tell her how proud they are of her.

14.  The bag is included in the exhibit, with the official notification card informing his wife that his body was recovered and telling her how to obtain his effects.