1.   Adults do not need to be rewarded by implausible flattery.

2.   All adults need to learn about solvent abuse and to be aware that it could happen to their children.

3.   And adults do not need to be on the verge of shouting or crying for these mechanisms to be involved.

4.   As in many other immigrant groups, many Dominican adults need literacy and English language instruction, while children need better schools.

5.   Adults would need a visa, or special permission, to enter.

6.   Adults need to point out how much trouble they can lead to when not used thoughtfully.

7.   Adults need to teach children how to deal with low self-esteem without bullying, he said.

8.   All adults need to teach a youngster is a little time.

9.   If adults need medication, aspirin, baby formula, diapers, anything at all, it is brought to them.

10.   If they see certain warning signs, however, adults need to take action beyond words.