81.   When their adult son died in a car accident, the prominent Houston-area family had definite ideas on how they wished to bury him.

82.   Why should he live and my son should die?

83.   Yet he says he can never forget how Rendell quietly visited his son, Terry Reiley, a Rendell worker, when the son was dying from leukemia.

84.   An Irish couple said Wednesday that their son died in an explosion aboard a London bus, and said they wanted no IRA involvement in his funeral.

85.   Another son died in his sleep, leaving three young children.

86.   At a local bereavement support group, Lillian Kaminer has been joined this year by two other mothers whose sons died from OxyContin.

87.   But nothing could have prepared him for seeing his infant son slowly die from dehydration.

88.   But he said he could not forget how his son had died.

89.   Diallo said that after sitting through nearly a month of trial testimony and arguments, she still could not understand why her son died.

90.   Especially heart-rending for Jarvis is not knowing precisely when his son died.