81.   At the memorial service for Richie Lynch last week, that younger brother, Liam, eulogized his older brother.

82.   At the memorial service two weeks later, Ms. Badum told the gathering that her brother had saved her life.

83.   At the memorial service, Clinton and others wore multicolored ribbons made up of white, yellow, purple and blue strands.

84.   At the memorial service, he turned around in his straight-backed chair to exchange a laugh with Donna Shalala, the secretary of health and human services.

85.   At almost the same moment at Washington National Cathedral, a memorial service began for Clark M. Clifford, friend and adviser to presidents in a more genteel day.

86.   At the memorial service for Carlton F. Valvo II, friends gave his daughter letters describing an adventure-packed life.

87.   At funerals and memorial services, he often addresses the children left behind, telling them what their parents would have wanted them to do.

88.   At John Peter Smith, an annual memorial service is held for people who have suffered those sorts of losses.

89.   At the Wat Thai temple on Tuesday, monks dressed in traditional orange robes consoled relatives and planned a meditation and memorial service for Friday.

90.   At one of several memorial services, he listened as neighbors called out the names of friends who had escaped, and of some who had not.