61.   If parents use their efforts on the big events and choices and allow the child to make decisions on other aspects of development, the child feels less controlled.

62.   If you keep on worrying, even though you resolve to say nothing, the child will feel it and react against it.

63.   If children feel unsafe or have been targeted, seek help from the school.

64.   In addition, abducted children often feel some resentment that the parent left behind did not search harder.

65.   In addition, sleeping in your bed can make your child feel confused and anxious rather than relaxed and reassured.

66.   In fact, he says, such di STORY IN scussions make a child feel more competent.

67.   In many ways, Lewis says, Hanukkah makes Jewish children feel like outsiders, strangers in a strange land.

68.   In our world of rapid change, family upheaval, and geographic mobility, children may feel isolated and separate.

69.   In managing to juggle all these roles in her life, she made her children always feel loved and nurtured.

70.   In no way, the litany goes, should children feel bad about themselves or about anything.