51.   One afternoon, hosting a gathering at her home, she met the husband of a colleague, a Dutch seed salesman.

52.   One daughter, Gitl Schaechter-Viswanath, met her husband at Yiddish-vokh.

53.   She met her husband, a native of Nigeria, at a wedding.

54.   She met her husband, Mark, when both worked for Arthur Andersen.

55.   She met her husband, who was in a labor camp during the war, shortly before they both moved to the United States, family members said.

56.   She spent three formative years at Black Mountain, which is also where she met her husband, architect Albert Lanier.

57.   She met her husband at the local high school.

58.   She met her husband only five times before they married.

59.   She met her husband the first day of graduate school in Lincoln.

60.   She met her husband through the same service.