41.   Hands clasping his head in mock horror, James Wagoner recalls the day when his father took a stab at talking to him about sex.

42.   He said his father would take him to the union hall on Saturdays, and commanded respect wherever he went.

43.   Her father took off with the woman he was seeing while his wife was dying.

44.   Her father took her outside and worked with her.

45.   Her father took her younger brother to live with him, she said, and she remained with her mother.

46.   His father immediately took him back to the water, then under it, so he would overcome his newly discovered fear.

47.   His father takes the weekend duty, she said.

48.   His father then took him to a tutor to study calligraphy and Chinese characters.

49.   His father took the first steps toward modernization, including opening secular schools and health centers.

50.   His father took the wheel, put the gear in neutral and tapped his foot lightly on the brake.