31.   Tera wanted to move out but was afraid her husband might become violent.

32.   The husband becomes good cop to her bad cop.

33.   The husband becomes the sole breadwinner.

34.   The loving husband becomes a bat-wielding, car-smashing lout.

35.   The photographs, she said, were secretly taken by her sister and show what happened when her husband became angry.

36.   The societal norm to give it up can feel like pressure, and even a loving husband can become an antagonist.

37.   Their husbands became T-ball and soccer coaches.

38.   Then her husband became ill and had open heart surgery.

39.   What was truly startling was to see that in many instances when women from these families married into a non-crusading family their husbands subsequently became Crusaders.

40.   When her husband became ill with cancer, Ms. Stewart-Gordon began filling in for him at the restaurant.