21.   But the grief is still there, ready to engulf her when she goes home.

22.   But while there was grief for the victims, Lee recalled some felt a certain relief even before Berkowitz was captured.

23.   Counselors have been trying to offer what comfort they could to the families, but said that for many, the grief is too raw to be assuaged.

24.   Director Nanni Moretti, who also plays the sorrowing father, knows that grief is in the details.

25.   Eight years ago, some parents seemed reluctant because their grief was so fresh.

26.   Fifteen minutes later in the car, lost again on the way home for good measure, the grief was gone.

27.   For most families the grief can never be offset or put right, Fleming says.

28.   For Gabriella, grief is the stringing together of facts, like the beads of a necklace.

29.   Grief is a fault line that can give way at any moment.

30.   Grief is a slow, complex process, and few people move through it without an occasional relapse, she says.