11.   Always humble beneath the gregarious front, Craven would be embarrassed by all the attention, his wife said, smiling at the memory.

12.   And as he lay dying in the hospital, his wife said, he told her not to do business with Dickter.

13.   And the Iowa State coach, Dan McCarney, held his job although his former wife said he had abused her for eight years.

14.   And we know his wife says she forgives him.

15.   As my wife said, black survival was a miracle.

16.   As much as he loved the fast pace of the city, his wife said, he had his priorities straight.

17.   At home, his wife said, he rarely talked of work.

18.   Because, his wife said, your spine is weak, and you could become paralyzed.

19.   Both wives say that politics not only came first with Mandela but consumed virtually all of his waking hours, at the expense of his family.

20.   Alcohol made him volatile, his wife said.