1. Asked to testify, I supported the bill as an important step but urged an added requirement that the engaged couple take a premarital inventory. 2. Equally important, a premarital inventory can be a bridge between an older, wiser generation and the couple considering marriage. 3. Premarital inventories and divorce-busting courses. 4. Shockingly, however, only a tenth of those who marry today get a premarital inventory. 5. The best marriage insurance is a premarital inventory, McManus contends. 6. The guidelines recommend the use of a premarital inventory, sets of questions touching subjects as diverse as family backgrounds, daily habits and sexual expectations. 7. Virtually none give training in conflict resolution and only a tenth require a premarital inventory. |