41.   Burke says kids are most likely to sample the Web sites of financial-service firms with which their parents do business.

42.   But he said he will handle the generational transfer the way his parents did, without overt pressure.

43.   But he refuses to sell out the way his former hippie parents did.

44.   But Jeff and Jordan were crazy about sports, so their parents did everything they could to make sure they had a chance to play.

45.   But parents can only do this, he stressed, if they know what is on the screen.

46.   But rather than work within the system, as parents did a generation ago, she and others are trying to bypass it altogether.

47.   But knowing an elderly parent is doing well is a huge relief that makes it easier to focus at work.

48.   But some co-op schools have jobs that parents can do on evenings or weekends, such as keeping the financial records or painting and fixing up classrooms.

49.   But one Mountain View parent does.

50.   But the childless are unlikely to scrutinize the process as closely as parents do.