31.   Her older brother Darragh died on the ocean voyage, and in that family too there were strong unresolved desires.

32.   His brother August Ratisseau died, with his wife and three children.

33.   Her brother died in a car crash three months later.

34.   Her brother later died of lymphoma.

35.   His twin brothers also died of illness.

36.   His two brothers died violently, one while commiting a robbery and the other in prison.

37.   His brother died of a heroin overdose and alcohol poisoning, and Willingham nursed a cocaine habit himself for five years.

38.   His brother Rocco had died during the summer.

39.   His eldest brother died of cancer two months ago.

40.   In her last year of residency, her brother died of AIDS in Arizona.